En souvenir de
ROBERT (Bob/Wally) WALLACE
1946 - 2026
ROBERT (Bob/Wally) WALLACE, de Dieppe
C’est avec le cœur lourd que nous annonçons le décès de Bob. Il a complété son parcours sur Terre entouré de sa famille aimante le 24 janvier, à l’âge de 79 ans, après une courte bataille contre le cancer. Né à Moncton, il était le fils de feu Nellie (MacDonald) et Harry Wallace. Il manquera profondément et sera à jamais aimé et souvenu par son épouse Sandra, son fils Jeff, sa fille Kim, son frère Harry (Laverna), ses cinq petits-enfants Deklan, Kaleb, Tristan, Nicholas et Adam, ses arrière-petits-enfants, ainsi que ses nièces, neveux et cousins.
Bob fut précédé dans la mort par sa fille Krista et sa sœur Brenda. Diplômé de Harrison Trimble High School et de Husson College au Maine. Il a travaillé comme enseignant à Harrison Trimble High School pendant 30 ans (1971-2002) et durant certaines de ces années, il a été entraîneur de basketball pour l’équipe masculine junior et l’équipe féminine senior.
Souvenirs d’un fils
Après que mon père soit tombé malade, il nous a fait savoir qu’il ne voulait pas de funérailles, seulement une veillée / célébration de la vie, comme nous l’avions fait pour ma sœur. Cependant, la seule demande qu’il a faite était d’avoir une bonne nécrologie, essentiellement un éloge. Je lui ai dit qu’il n’y avait aucun problème, alors nous y voilà.
Il a également donné des instructions à ma mère et à moi sur la façon d’entretenir sa pelouse impeccable, dont il était très fier d’avoir la plus belle de la rue.
Je suis convaincu de pouvoir dire que j’avais une excellente relation avec mon père, probablement meilleure que celle de beaucoup de gens. Mais en disant cela, on réalise aussi combien il y a de choses que l’on ne sait pas sur la vie de ses parents avant d’avoir des enfants. On oublie qu’ils ont eu toute une autre vie avant notre arrivée et qu’ils ont été beaucoup de choses pour différentes personnes.
Pour lui, il a été fils, frère, mari, père, grand-père, arrière-grand-père, athlète, entraîneur, spectateur, enseignant, mentor, collègue et ami.
On entend parfois des histoires racontées par des membres de la famille ou leurs amis, mais souvent ils évitent les meilleures histoires par gêne ou pour se protéger légalement… haha. Pourtant, ce sont exactement les choses que j’aimerais connaître. C’est pourquoi je sais que je contacterai plusieurs personnes au cours des prochaines semaines et des prochains mois pour partager un verre ou un café et espérer entendre toutes les histoires — les bonnes comme les mauvaises.
Je sais très bien, et on me l’a dit plus d’une fois, que j’étais bien le fils de mon père. Ce n’était pas toujours censé être un compliment, mais j’ai appris à accepter le bon comme le mauvais.
Je sais que mon père n’était pas parfait, loin de là, avec plusieurs défauts. Mais il était le père parfait pour moi.
Il disait souvent que c’était une bonne chose que Jeff aime le plein air, la pêche et le camping. Heureusement que c’était le cas, car cela a solidifié notre relation depuis ma naissance jusqu’à notre dernière aventure de pêche l’été dernier.
Mon enfance s’est déroulée autour des chevaux de course. Tout jeune, je passais du temps à l’écurie et à l’hippodrome de Dieppe. Je ne me souviens que de quelques bribes, mais c’était une grande partie de la vie de notre famille, car c’est là que mes parents se sont rencontrés. Cette passion est restée forte pour mon père, puisqu’il travaillait encore comme officiel de courses attelées jusqu’à récemment.
Même après que nous n’ayons plus eu de chevaux, une tradition familiale des Wallace était de se rendre à Old Home Week à l’Île-du-Prince-Édouard pour regarder les courses pendant les vacances, une tradition que nous avons poursuivie au fil des ans.
Les promenades du dimanche à la campagne, les marches en forêt, les pique-niques, ainsi que la pêche, le camping et le canotage faisaient partie de la vie normale en grandissant.
Heureusement pour moi, mes deux parents travaillaient dans le système scolaire, donc partir l’été pour des voyages sur la route semblait être quelque chose que tous les enfants faisaient.
Nous jouions au basketball dans l’entrée ou mon père construisait une patinoire dans la cour arrière pour ma sœur, moi et les enfants du voisinage durant l’hiver. À l’époque, nous faisions aussi beaucoup de ski de fond, mon père créant ses propres pistes derrière la maison dans les bois.
Inutile de dire que j’ai eu une enfance très active, et j’étais son ombre — il m’emmenait presque partout avec lui.
En tant que baby-boomer, il avait une certaine dureté et me l’a transmise aussi. Dans le sport, on ne montrait pas la douleur, et il disait souvent :
« C’est loin du cœur. »
Il était l’un de mes plus grands partisans, mais il ne mâchait pas ses mots. Il n’avait aucun problème à me dire où je pouvais m’améliorer. Il respectait aussi les décisions des entraîneurs et ne pensait jamais que j’étais meilleur que je ne l’étais réellement. Si je voulais faire une équipe ou jouer davantage, c’était à moi de travailler plus fort.
À l’université, lorsque je jouais au football, lui et ma mère n’ont jamais manqué un seul match, à domicile ou à l’extérieur. On pouvait toujours les voir assis derrière le banc, bien installés dans leurs chaises de jardin, très tôt avant le match.
Après la partie, ils venaient me rejoindre sur le terrain pour un câlin, et mon père glissait souvent 100 $ dans ma main pour la semaine. Puis, le lundi matin, arrivait son courriel avec son analyse de mon match et ce que j’aurais pu mieux faire… haha.
À l’âge adulte et jusqu’à aujourd’hui, notre relation a été faite d’innombrables parties de golf, d’aventures de pêche, de chasse, de concerts, de voyages en famille, de fêtes, de repas familiaux, de moments pour pleurer nos proches, de simples conversations ou même de silences partagés.
Ce qui me manquera le plus — et qui me fera probablement pleurer plus de fois que je ne peux compter pour le reste de mes jours — c’est qu’il ne me laissait jamais partir sans un câlin et un « je t’aime », ou comme c’était devenu depuis mon enfance : « Lovou ».
Il m’appelait pour s’assurer que j’étais bien rentré à la maison ou au camp, ou après une partie de golf ou une sortie de pêche pour savoir comment j’avais joué ou si j’avais attrapé quelque chose. Et chaque appel ou message se terminait par « lovou ».
Lovou papa.
Jusqu’à ce que nous nous retrouvions. Jeff
Courses attelées (Harness Racing)
Bob avait un intérêt de toute une vie pour les courses attelées. Avant l’âge de 10 ans, lui et son bon ami Bob Roach allaient regarder les courses à Dieppe, marchant ou faisant de l’auto-stop depuis le West End s’ils ne pouvaient pas obtenir un transport avec son père.En 1978, son frère Harry l’a impliqué en tant que propriétaire, entraîneur et conducteur. C’est également cette année-là qu’il a rencontré Sandra et qu’ils ont commencé leur famille. Il a conduit de 1978 à 1985 avec 160 départs en carrière, 17 victoires, 22 deuxièmes places et 20 troisièmes places, avec des gains totaux de 6 352 $. Il a éventuellement rangé ses couleurs et s’est dirigé vers la tour des juges de l’hippodrome de Champlain de 1984 à 1991. Par la suite, il a servi comme membre du comité d’appel de la Commission des courses attelées des provinces maritimes, avant de devenir juge principal au sein de cette commission.
Pendant les vingt-cinq années suivantes, il a agi comme officiel sur tous les hippodromes des Maritimes, devenant l’un des juges les plus respectés de la région pour son professionnalisme, son sens de l’équité, son souci du détail, son calme et surtout pour être un véritable gentleman. Il était apprécié et respecté non seulement par les participants de l’industrie, mais aussi par les autres officiels avec qui il travaillait. L’une de ses qualités les plus admirées était sa volonté de former et encadrer les nouveaux officiels. Le respect que lui portaient ses collègues s’est manifesté lorsqu’il a été élu Officiel de l’année du MPHRC en 2017 par ses pairs.
En plus de ce respect, Bob était toujours prêt à aider la Commission de toutes les façons possibles, que ce soit pour le développement des règlements, les sessions de formation ou en offrant son temps et son soutien au tournoi de golf annuel Stretch Drive. L’industrie dans son ensemble — et particulièrement ses collègues — regrettera certainement ses connaissances, sa compréhension et son soutien.
Habiliter
Croissance
La pêche
Bob a grandi en pêchant la truite dans la rivière Kennebecasis, à Portage Vale, où sa famille possédait un camp. Je me souviens qu’il m’y emmenait, seul ou avec toute la famille, pour pêcher régulièrement quand j’étais jeune — parfois en restant au camp, parfois en installant une tente au bord de la rivière, ou simplement en y allant pour la journée ou après l’école.
Lui et ses amis ont éventuellement commencé à entreprendre des expéditions de pêche plus importantes à partir de 1981, voyageant vers le nord du Québec et du Labrador. En se déplaçant en fourgonnette, en wagons de train et en hydravion, ils atteignaient des endroits éloignés pour pêcher la truite et le brochet. En entendant les histoires de logistique et les situations parfois chaotiques, je me demande encore comment personne n’y a laissé sa vie. Je me souviens, étant jeune, que ces voyages avaient encore lieu et j’étais toujours jaloux de ne pas pouvoir y aller, mais comme mon père me disait : « Tu n’aimes pas les fèves au lard, Jeff, et c’est tout ce qu’on mange là-bas. »
La vie de notre famille, ainsi que notre façon de pêcher, ont complètement changé à la suite d’un voyage en canot vers 1989. Le voyage s’est terminé sur la rivière Miramichi Sud-Ouest, sur le chemin Howard, où Don Grant avait sa roulotte. Don a dit à mon père qu’il devrait revenir bientôt pour essayer la pêche au saumon. Eh bien, dès le week-end suivant, il y est retourné, a attrapé son premier saumon… et le reste appartient à l’histoire.
À partir de ce moment, j'ai passé mon enfance du 15 avril au 15 octobre sur le chemin Howard, à pêcher le saumon atlantique sur la rivière Miramichi Sud-Ouest. J'ai alors intégré la communauté et la famille Hennessy, qui est devenue comme une deuxième famille. Notre caravane est restée sur leur terrain jusqu'à il y a quelques années, avant que je n'achète mon propre chalet. Difficile de dire combien d'heures il a passées à pêcher là-bas au fil des ans, ni combien de saumons il a ferrés et sortis de l'eau. Quand je me promenais sur la propriété des Hennessy, je l'entendais toujours crier mon nom pour me prévenir qu'il avait ferré un poisson et qu'il voulait que je vienne le remonter. C'était une habitude jusqu'à ce que je réussisse enfin à en ferrer un moi-même. Il m'expliquait que ferrer un saumon lui procurait une sensation « orgasmique » et qu'après la première touche, le reste n'avait plus d'importance. Pendant cette période, nous nous éclipsions pour pêcher dans différents bassins et rivières de la région, notamment la rivière Cains en automne. Bob trouvait toujours le temps d'allumer un feu sur la rive pour que lui et les autres pêcheurs puissent se réchauffer après avoir traversé le bassin. Pendant des années, nous avons aussi pêché sur la rivière Patapedia, en faisant le long voyage jusqu'au Québec. Ces dernières années, nous sommes passés à la rivière Upsalsquitch, depuis que ses petits-fils s'y sont mis, notre dernier voyage remontant à l'été dernier, en juillet. C'est d'ailleurs là que mon père a attrapé son dernier saumon au bassin McDougall, le matin de notre dernier jour. Ces dernières années, il aimait nous regarder pêcher ou s'occuper du campement : cuisiner, faire la vaisselle et entretenir le feu. Il aimait se faire appeler le « patron du camp ». Depuis que j'ai acquis mon propre camp, nous pêchons moins, mais nous faisons des excursions en bateau sur la rivière ou restons au camp à s'occuper du poêle à bois, à couper et empiler du bois, à faire des feux de camp, à jouer au cribbage, à écouter de la musique des années 60 ou à siroter notre café sur la terrasse toute la matinée.
Golf
Une autre grande passion qui a occupé une place importante dans sa vie depuis sa retraite en 2002 était le golf. Je ne suis pas certain du moment où il a commencé à jouer, mais je suppose que c’était lorsqu’il vivait à Bangor pendant ses études universitaires. Il est ensuite revenu à Moncton et jouait tôt le matin avant d’enseigner, ou encore disputait 36 trous par jour durant l’été. Le golf a éventuellement cédé sa place aux courses de chevaux et à la vie de famille. Par la suite, il jouait à l’occasion avec des amis.
À sa retraite, il s’est rendu chez Sears pour s’acheter un nouvel ensemble de bâtons et s’est joint au Pine Needles Golf Club avec d’autres retraités de HTHS. Il y est resté membre jusqu’à aujourd’hui, sa dernière partie ayant été jouée le 3 novembre 2025, en compagnie de son fils et de ses petits-fils.
Au cours des plus de 20 dernières années, il jouait environ cinq jours par semaine, marchant chaque parcours, jusqu’à l’année dernière où la voiturette est devenue une bonne option, jouant alors environ trois fois par semaine. Il réussissait encore des scores dans les 70 à l’âge de 78 ans. En entendant ces scores, je ne pouvais m’empêcher de demander combien de mulligans avaient été utilisés…
Basketball
Le basketball a également occupé une grande place dans la vie de Bob. Il passait des heures à l’extérieur de l’école Bessborough à tirer au panier ou à jouer pour l’équipe de l’école. Il a ensuite joué pour Harrison Trimble High School et St Pat’s.
Cependant, l’impact le plus important qu’il a eu sur ce sport fut à travers l’entraînement. Durant ses années d’enseignement à HTHS, il a entraîné l’équipe masculine junior, puis a commencé à entraîner l’équipe féminine senior. Elles ont remporté le championnat provincial lors de la saison 1979-1980.
Il a ensuite entraîné l’équipe de sa fille et, pendant quelques années, celle de son fils, jusqu’à ce qu’il juge qu’il était temps de passer à autre chose.
Il est revenu entraîner les filles senior à HTHS au début des années 90 et a poursuivi jusqu’à sa retraite en 2002, remportant un autre championnat provincial lors de la saison 1996-1997. Durant ces années, on pouvait le voir, vêtu d’une chemise et d’une cravate, courir le long des lignes de touche pieds nus, danser, glisser et sauter pour célébrer les beaux jeux. Il considérait cette période comme l’une des plus heureuses de sa vie.
Ses distinctions : Prix d’entraîneur 2004 de Basketball Nouveau-Brunswick, Entraîneur de l’année 1999-2000 de l’Association des entraîneurs de basketball des écoles secondaires du NB, et Entraîneur de l’année 1999-2000 de Friends of the Trojans.
Pendant cette période, il organisait également d’innombrables gymnases ouverts tout l’été pour tous ceux qui voulaient venir jouer. Si vous étiez une joueuse de basketball à cette époque, il est fort probable que vous ayez participé à l’un de ses camps. Jamais du genre à rester sur les lignes de touche, il participait toujours aux exercices et aux matchs, et on pouvait le voir courir et tirer avec une précision impressionnante, même dans la cinquantaine. Il disait toujours : « Devant l’arceau, derrière l’arceau, remplis l’espace ».
De nombreux joueurs ont contacté la famille depuis son décès pour exprimer leur gratitude. L’un de ses joueurs de la fin des années 90 m’a envoyé ceci en hommage :
« On ne peut pas célébrer M. Wallace sans parler de l’impact profond qu’il a eu sur le basketball féminin à Moncton et sur la vie des athlètes qu’il a entraînées. Son engagement allait bien au-delà du sport. Il a investi son temps, son énergie et son cœur pour nous aider à grandir, non seulement comme joueuses, mais comme personnes. Le temps est la chose la plus précieuse que l’on puisse offrir, et il l’a donné généreusement. Il croyait en nous, et son héritage continuera de vivre bien après le dernier coup de sifflet. Merci coach, de la part de chacune d’entre nous qui avons eu la chance d’apprendre de vous et de vous avoir à nos côtés. »
Enseignement
Je serais négligent de ne pas parler du passage de Bob à HTHS en dehors du terrain de basketball. Diplômé de Harrison Trimble High School en 1966, il y a commencé à enseigner en 1971 et y est resté pendant toute sa carrière.
Il était surtout connu pour son cours de droit, pour avoir regardé d’innombrables heures d’American Justice sur VHS et pour avoir donné des surnoms à la majorité de ses élèves. Je ne peux même pas compter le nombre d’anciens élèves qui sont venus me parler au fil des ans pour dire qu’il était leur enseignant préféré. Je n’en ai jamais douté, car il était aussi l’un des miens. Le droit était d’ailleurs l’une de mes meilleures notes au secondaire…
Il participait à des rôles classiques dans le célèbre spectacle variétés des enseignants de HTHS et était souvent présent en bordure de terrain lors des événements sportifs. Il était maroon et blanc jusqu’au bout.
Durant ces 30 années, il a également eu la chance de travailler avec de nombreux enseignants extraordinaires qui sont devenus de proches amis. Ils continuaient de se rencontrer pour prendre un café, une bière, jouer aux cartes ou faire une partie de golf. Ils formaient un groupe spécial et faisaient partie de la famille élargie des Wallace.
Selon ses volontés, la famille et les amis sont invités au salon funéraire Fergusons, 1657 chemin Mountain, Moncton (506-858-1995), pour une célébration de la vie de Bob le dimanche 1er février de 14 h à 17 h. Une inhumation privée aura lieu à une date ultérieure au cimetière Life Celebration Green Cemetery, à Renaud Mills, NB.
Hommage à Robert
«Nos condoléances les plus sincères Sandra et famille. Nous gardons d'excellents souvenirs de Bob et des années lorsque nous étions voisins à Grande-Digue.»
- Jean & Gisèle
«Mr. Wallace was more than my high school teacher, he believed in me when most did not. I will always have a lot of respect for him and so sorry to hear of his passing, he was a legend in my eyes.»
- Paula Fox
«Mr. W was a great teacher. Thank you for teaching me kindness.»
- Kandy
I was fortunate to have been coached by Bob at multiple summer basketball camps. He had a talent for bringing the best out in every player. I am grateful for my time on the court with him. His son's tribute was absolutely beautiful, but one part in particular made me laugh: he used to tell us players, too, that if we got hurt (in a minor way) that «it's a long way from the heart!» My heartfelt condolences to Bob's loved ones, as I know he will be deeply missed by many. Rest in peace, Bob.
- Julianna Mutch
«Mr. Wallace was one of my favourite teachers! I speak of him often and the impression he made on me given his teaching style and approach. We often had a banter back and forth - sometimes driving each other crazy ha ha ha! He was compassionate and direct in his feedback. Caring and supportive. Reflective and open to continuous growth and learning himself. My condolences to his family. Thank you for being an awesome teacher and for the difference you made in my life!»
- Michelle Williams
«One of my favorite teachers, he is one teacher that I didn't skip class on. Loved law class. He will be missed by so many.»
- Tina Bourque
«Oh my lanta, I’m so sorry to hear of an amazing teacher, one of my favorites, he has a big heart inside & out. His love for his family, his love for teaching... this makes me so sad. God took another hard working man home, I’m So Sorry Wallace Family Big Big Grizzly Hugs»
🦋 I Was a Student 🦋😞🦋»
- Mary
«My deepest condolences to you all. Mr. Wallace was one of those coaches that impacted my life not only on the floor but also off. His dry sense of humor was like no other and always supported women’s sports. I’ve always told my daughter that Mr. Wallace was my favorite coach and loved his Law classes. I’ll never forget him walking into his class one day and we had our friend Heather’s 8x10 baby picture hanging up at the front of his class. He looked at it with confusion but didn’t miss a beat and went back teaching lol»
- Sheri Fletcher (Murray)
«My deepest sympathies for your loss What a wonderful human he was! Always entertaining, practice shots of golf, and a wonderful sense of humor. A genuine concern for students is what I remember most. He seemed to know when a day was rough for one reason or another. We presented him with entertainer of the year the year I had him as a teacher. Forever remembered and eternally grateful for one of the good ones!»
- Tricia McGraw
«My deepest condolences to the family of Mr. Wallace. That was a beautiful eulogy and I am sure Mr. Wallace would be very proud of that. Mr. Wallace was one of the best teachers I have had and have many fond memories of his class and home room. RIP Mr. Wallace!»
- Craig Fearon
«Will truly be missed both as my teacher in 1987 and in the horse racing industry where we seen each other a lot. One of my favorite teachers and made Law interesting.
Deanne Boudreau nee» *
- Lackie
«Beautiful eulogy…. Deepest condolences to the family Francine Cain»
- Francine Cain
«I remember Bob as one of my favourite basketball teammates at Trimble, and at St. Pats. I also admired him as the coach of the Girls team - especially when they lost the NB High School Championship on a bad call at the final buzzer. What was, on replay, a two pointer that was called a three. Giving FHS a one point win. The referee who had made the call went to the locker rooms of both teams and she apologized for the call. They interviewed Bob afterwards, and he was a perfect gentleman, saying 'you have to respect the refs as athletes, but of course they should still be playing'. I suspect that if the shoe was on the other foot [so to speak] the FHS coaches would not have been so kind to her. I was so proud of Wally, and hoped as a coach that I would do the same. As it turned out I was later in a similar position, though not in a Provincial Championship, and I remembered Bob and was, at that time, a gentleman.»
- Jonathan Crosby
«Our deepest and sincere condolences to the family. I don't know who was more entertaining at the basketball games. The girls or Bob. He was truly one of the most amazing person we have ever met. He mentored Jay and helped her build confidence in herself which helped her to accomplish everything she did until she left this earth. I will cherish the letter Bob left in our door when we lost Jay because we weren't home. He didn't give up though. He came back and we had a nice visit and long chat. Bob will never be forgotten!»
- Kathy Silvea
«Not only was Mr. Wallace one of my favorite teachers, he inspired me so to go onto my BEd - my minor was Law. It was great to go back to HTHS and fill in his classes when he was out for the day. Definitely one of the good ones.»
- Kim
«Dear Sandra, Jeff, Kim and friends, Bob will be fondly remembered by many as a passionate, enthusiastic coach, teacher and friend. He has had a huge impact on many people during his incredible journey in life. My deepest condolences to all his cherished ones.»
- Marc McGeachy
«RIP Bob. Sympathies to Sandra, Jeff, family and friends.»
- Rheal
«To Jeff, Sandra and family, it was a pleasure to work with Bob Wallace and know him as a friend. I loved the positive energy Bob brought to the classroom and basketball court and all his life long passions. Bob had a great sense of humor and knew how to laugh with people and at himself, especially during some of our variety show skits. Bob never let a bad shot change his golf round. He was resilient, determined and brought laughter to our school, his friends and family. He will be missed.»
- John Grimmer
«To Sandra, Jeff and Family my sincere condolences on the passing of Bobby. Having been a neighbour on Century Drive, as our homes were built and as Brenda and I began school together, our lives were intertwined with The Wallace's. So many memories of school years, sports, and as I term it " The Leave it to Beaver " era. Bobby was a great tease, had a wicked sense of humour, a person of integrity. He will be missed by so many, the lives that he touched, the differences he made, a wonderful legacy. Hugs to Sandra and Jeff and Family, to Kim and Family, Harry and Laverna and Family.
Sincerely, Laura {McNeish} Whitmee»
- Laura Whitmee
«Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.»
- Anonymous
«My sincere and deepest condolences to the Wallace family and dear friends. Bob was an outstanding human being. I was so fortunate to have had the opportunity to enjoy Bob, not only as a colleague at HTHS, but also as a friend and mentor. His kindness and love for staff, students, and his athletes was real and unmistakable. Bob was relentless in his drive to find goodness in everything and everyone. It was such a joy to be in his company. Bob's good-natured demeanor, and infectious smile, will long be remembered by all who had the pleasure of being in his presence. Such fond memories. Thank you Bob»
- Dale MacLean
«I knew Bob through basketball as I recruited several of his players when I coached WBB at UNB. His players were well prepared for university and had such great attitudes. He was always so positive and instilled the love of the game in all his players. He will be missed.»
- Joyce Slipp
«We called him Wally in the days you were fearful of teachers when you called them Mr., Mrs. or Miss but Wally knew how to connect to students! I was a mouse in the corner in the mid 70s Wally made sure I was included and he also made an impact on my children who are also Trimble grads RIP one of my favorite teachers (Linda McConnell)»
- Linda Mason
«Condolences to his family and many friends. Each of my hundreds of conversations with Bob over the years began and ended with laughter. The world needs more people like Bob. God bless.»
- Dwayne Tingley
«I was deeply saddened to hear of Bob's illness and passing. He was truly one of the kindest men I ever had the privilege to work with. Even from afar, collaborating with him was always a treat—his generosity, patience, and steady presence made my work easier and brighter. I remember a few trips that I made to the Maritimes for meetings - he always made me feel so welcome! He will be greatly missed, and my thoughts are with all who were lucky enough to know him. He was always so appreciative of the work that we did together and would always have a comment that he was lucky to work with me. I'm the lucky one!! You will be missed Bob! Thanks for everything, and may you rest in peace!»
- Val Boom
«I first met Bob at an appeal at the APHRC in Kensington. Bob & I chatted after the appeal. I said to Brett, "Now there is the sweetest man ever!" Bob was so kind and caring, he was always so positive and would give a genuine smile & hug! In reading the wonderful tributes to Bob, he truly was a Genuine Gem to everyone he met!! He was a special man! Ed and I send heartfelt condolences to Sandra, Jeff, Kim, and grandkids and extended families. Sincerely, Cindy & Ed»
- Cindy Doucette
«It's very hard to find the correct words to post. Bob was a harness driver, just like myself. We met many moons ago at the old Brunswick Downs at Dean's Smith barn. At the track everyone were friends and some nights after the races, some gathered for a few drinks. I respected the decisions that Bob handed down from the judges stand at Champlain Raceway/New Brunswick Downs. He will be remembered as an outstanding husband, father, grandfather, great grandfather and teacher. Never forgotten, RIP Bob»
- Paul Breau
«My condolences to the Wallace family. MR Wallace was one of my teachers at H.T.H.S he liked to call me by my first name which when he did, he knew I wouldn’t answer him because I was really known by my second given name. He’d smile and call me Gail in which I answered here. He was a great teacher. R.I.P. Mr. Wallace.»
- Gail Murphy Whalen
«My condolences to the Wallace family. Mr. Wallace was one of my favourite teachers, he made many of his students felt seen including me, he always knew when to give us a smile or a you got this!! He wrote in my year book “as you slide through the banister of life remember I was a splinter in your career”, he truly was.»
- Maureen Bennett
«Dear Mrs. Wallace, Jeff, Kim and Family. Please accept my most heartfelt condolences. We could all write a novel about how absolutely fantastic Mr. Wallace was. He shaped so many students lives. I always looked forward to his Law Class or simply seeing him in the hallways. If you were having a bad day, you could be sure, seeing him, you would be walking away with a new take on your day. May your memories comfort you today, tomorrow and every day after. The world lost a shinning star but his legacy will live on, within us all. You made me a better person. Rest easy»
- Ruth Garland
«Mr. Wallace & law class! He was one of the greats. My condolences to his family, friends and old co-workers. 🩵»
- Amanda Guitard
«RIP a great guy from the west end.»
- Greg Somers
«Sandra and Wallace Family...Fond memories of teaching with Bob in the early 70's and then the 90's. He was a well-respected educator and touched many lives. A true and loyal Trojan to his students and staff. May God's Peace and Comfort be with you and your loved ones at this time.»
- Lorraine and Fred Veysey
«I'm very sorry to hear about "Bob Wallace". Quite simply...he was always there for the students and the teams of the school. He was a motivator, a director, a caregiver and an all-around great guy. Two fondest memories.....the little songs he would sing, "Nick Nick Bobic, banana bana BoPic...."(from the name game song), and, while playing a football game in 1974 against Queen Elizabeth High down in Halifax, after ripping my little finger sideways from my hand, he gave some of his famous encouraging words and then taped my little finger to the next finger, "Now get back out there". He was always around, always there for everyone. I am sure the family will miss him dearly. Dale Nichols Class of '75»
- Dale Nichols
«Dear Sandra and Jeff, on behalf of the Maritime Provinces Harness Racing Commission, and personally from me, please accept our heartfelt condolences on Bob’s passing. Bob was a truly special person. When I spoke about him with others, I often referred to him as “Gentleman Bob,” because that is exactly what he was. He was the definition of an upstanding, principled, and kind man. He carried himself with grace and integrity in everything he did, and that left a lasting impression on everyone who had the privilege of knowing him. I loved calling Bob and catching up. About 50% of the time, I reached him, he was out on the golf course, and I could always hear how much he cherished that time. We shared many conversations about his game, about racing, and about life. Those moments meant a great deal to me. Bob was a valued member of the MPHRC, and participants throughout harness racing held him in the highest regard. He earned deep respect through his fairness, wisdom, and quiet leadership. I will miss the opportunity to work with him and to trade stories. Those conversations were always a highlight. Bob spoke so often and so proudly of his wife and children. It was clear in every conversation how deeply he loved his family. Please know that his warmth, character, and legacy live on through you. We will miss Bob deeply. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this incredibly difficult time.»
- Kyle Burton
«Very sad news with the loss of Bob, condolences to his Family & Friends 😔»
- Peter Cook
«I'm so sorry to hear of Mr. Wallace's passing. Like many others, he taught me Law in high school, but he had a way of making us all look forward to going to class every day. Whether it be in class, at a game or just passing by in the hallways he was always there trying get a rise out of you and most importantly, he knew when you needed a good laugh. He was truly one of the good guys. Rest easy Mr. Wallace and condolences to your family, friends and all of those you have made laugh, smile or made their day a little brighter.»
- Kelly Doucette (Butterworth)
«My deepest sympathy to Sandra, Jeff, Kim, his grandchildren and extended family. I had the pleasure of working with Bob through my employment with the Maritime Provinces Harness Racing Commission. Bob was one of the kindest, sincerest, and supportive individuals I have ever worked with. I could always count on him if I needed someone to sit on an Appeal Board and, in later years, if I needed a race official to fill in at one of the racetracks throughout the Maritimes. Bob had such a calm and caring demeanour which, I so admired. Bob was also a very thoughtful man. He always made sure to leave a Christmas greeting on our phone each year. Jeff, I am sure you made him very proud with his obituary. It 100% described the husband, father, grandfather, friend and colleague that he was. I will always remember his sense of humour and his laugh. He was a great man who will be dearly missed by many. Rest in Peace my friend.»
- Debbie Walsh
«My deepest condolences to the family. Mr. Wallace taught me law at HTHS, awesome teacher.»
- Kara Colpitts
«So sorry for your loss. I have nothing but the fondest memories of Bob. I had the pleasure of being a student of Bob’s at Harrison Trimble during the 90’s and looked forward every week to our Friday law class complete with a new episode of A and E’s American Justice! It was my favourite class. He will be sadly missed. Rest in peace. My condolences to Jeff, Sandra and the entire family. »
- Luke P
«I had the privilege of having this man teaching me Law 120 my last year at HTHS. It was always a job to be in that man's class. Educating AND entertaining. They don't make teachers like him anymore. Shawn Chitty Class of 91.»
- Shawn Chitty
«My heart goes out to all of the Wallace family. I was friends with Krista both in high school and later on in life. Mr. Wallace never taught me but I have fond memories of him. I watched him coach from the sidelines and was often gifted a friendly smile. He was certainly one of the very best!»
- Wendy
«Sending my condolences necessary to Bob's family. Such a huge loss. I have known Bob since our early years in Bessborough school and we were both teachers in the district. I know he was a wonderful teacher, coach and all-round person. So sad to hear.»
- Heather Jones
«Jeff, my thoughts are with you and your family. What an amazing write up on what truly describes to be a wonderful man.»
- Crystal Apthorp
«Have known Bob all of my life from HTHS years (where he was nicknamed "Razz") to our respective positions on the MPHRC. Occasional partner on the 'Links' to a great laugh given our mutual warped sense of humor. A good man, a man's man, a loving man to his family and cherished good friends. There is no doubt he will be judged fairly. Sincere sympathy to beloved Sandra and the entire Wallace Family. MIKE and JUDY SULLIVAN»
- Mike Sullivan
«I'm so sorry to hear of Mr. Wallace's passing. He taught me law and was such a huge part of my life with basketball. He was always so full of energy & positivity. Always had a cheesy one liner to motivate us from the side lines - many I still use now with a smile. How he & Mr. Dunphy survived van rides with all us girls, I'll never know. There are too many memories to share, but the impact he made will live on in all of us. Thinking of you, Jeff and Sandra xo»
- Melissa Carey
«Thanks for all the laughs we had when you would call me to the judges stand. Love you forever RIP»
- Frankie Fagan
«Mr. Wallace taught me in grade 11 & 12 at HTHS, he was one of my favorite teachers! So saddened to see this come across my page. My most sincere condolences to all family & friends! ❤️🕊»
- Jackie Young
«Jeff, I was a practice teacher at Trimble when you were in high school and your dad picked me up every morning and drive me home every afternoon because I didn't have a car yet. He was a lovely, friendly man and I have thought of him often long after that. My sincere condolences.»
- Natasha LeBlanc
«Mr. Wallace was an inspiring teacher who could make a class laugh while teaching and keeping the class interested! I look back on his classes with so much fondness! He was a great teacher and human!»
- Claire Gibson
«God Bless the Family from the Cook’s.»
- Janice J Cook
«In high school, I’m fairly certain I had a reputation for being a rebellious, stubborn teenager. I wasn’t the most academic student as I had this misguided point of view that you either get it or don’t. I either did very well or suffered classes, there was no in between. I was a source of frustration for many a teacher, and struggled with some members of authority. Having said that, taking Mr. Wallace’s Law class was one of my favourite experiences in school, and he was one of my absolute favourite teachers. Mr. Wallace and I got along from the get go. I was opinionated and outspoken and often felt misunderstood but he had this way of just knowing you. I did exceptionally well in his class very easily and anytime I would speak he would give me a look that made me feel seen. Mr. Wallace did not take my personality for granted and would often use my outspoken demeanour to my advantage, and possibly for his entertainment 🤣 I’ll never forget his acknowledging looks and his mischievous grins 😂 I loved his in- depth knowledge and discussions around difficult and convoluted topics so much, I decided I also wanted to take his World Studies class. I loved his ability to treat us kids like we were the intelligent, growing being we were, his inspiring us to be critical thinkers, learners, all the while gracing us with his humour. With Mr. Wallace, I learned to become more confident and comfortable in my personality, abilities, and growth. Thank you, Mr. Wallace.»
- Dar Robinson
«I was quite surprised and saddened to hear about Bob's passing. I was a graduate of Trimble in the early 70's and although Bob didn't teach me, my memories of Wally were on the golf course mostly. My friend and I would challenge Wally and Don Morton for small change in those days, peanuts today. Needless to say, Wally and Don came out on the short end most of the time. We played at Mountain Ridge in those days, Magnetic Hill today? Wally had a great dry sense of humour and the 4 of us bantered for most of the round. Bob was also part of the infamous backpacking trip the outdoor education class took to Fundy Park. That is a story for another day and anyone who was there or heard about it knows what I'm talking about. The last time I saw Bob was when I was in town visiting family and I dropped into Trimble for a visit and Bob was running a basketball camp. Had to be over 20 years ago. We had a great chat, shared many fond memories. Wally told me that my golf money was in the mail with a wink. Again, I'm sorry to hear about Wally's passing. He was a great guy who I will always remember!!»
- Brooke Rothwell
«We had the pleasure to meet Bob Wallace when he came to PEI to act as a judge during the harness races. It was a pleasure to meet & work with Bob. He was the kindest man you could ever meet. He was so appreciative of me supplying him with the charts & all the race reports he needed while working in the judges stand. He always showed appreciation in lots of communication with him, keeping him up-dated who had paid their memberships that were due that day etc. I remember him coming over to PEI during the Months of Dec & Jan a couple of years ago to act as senior judge. He enjoyed seeing everyone and staying in touch. He was very professional in every way. He sent me an email after that trip to the CDP telling me what a pleasure it was working with me and how I made his job very easy. That e-mail meant a lot to me, I will never forget you Bob. Our condolences to all your family & friends. RIP Bob Wallace. Sincerely from John & Joy Power Cornwall, PE.»
- John & Joy Power
«I was a student at HTHS in 1972 and although I did not have him as a teacher, I always saw him in the hall with a smile and a hello. I mostly remember him from playing basketball with him on the Teachers team in the Peti league. Bob was fun to play with and had an easy way about him on the court. He was always encouraging us to have fun and would give me the odd pointer when needed, which was often. Our condolences to the family, rest easy Bob. Danny Duquette family»
- Danny Duquette
«Sandra and Jeff, so sorry to hear about Bob’s passing. One of the best for sure, in all he did! Teaching, coaching, parenting, he just cared about people and wanted good for others. He was my homeroom teacher for my high school years, my Law teacher, was in the gym many times with him and fortunate to been around him over the later years through Jeff on the Miramichi River. Always smiling, always joking, always good to see him! That 90’s group of teachers at HTHS were certainly special and he always stood out. Glad I had a man like Bob in my adolescent life. He taught so much, to so many. Looking forward to celebrating him and having some good story telling with you Jeff. He will be certainly be missed. Love you guys, RJ»
- Ryan Johnston
«Great memories of teaching with Bob, the students loved him and so did we as a staff. He was always good for a laugh and a story. Like Jeff said, many “good stories” remain in the vault! How lucky was he to have lived such storied life with such great friends from all of his interests. Cy and I are away, but send condolences to Sandra and the family.»
- Pat Edmonds
«I want to send condolences to Sandra, and all family and Harry and family. Bobby and I have been like brother and sister I was at Brenda a lot growing up and playing basketball at HTHS for high school when Bobby played we've known each other for a long time and always had a good laugh when we got together. A finer gentleman and friend you'll ever know. My thoughts and prayers to all.»
- ANN (WHALEN) Stevens
«Mr. Wallace was my home room teacher and I also took classes that he taught. He will always be remembered for being the favorite teacher for many Trojans. He was understanding, encouraged critical thinking, team work and respecting other’s opinions. He was someone who listened when you needed that ear and always had great advice. The world truly lost a great man. His legacy will live on through the many lives he touched. He was truly in his element as a teacher and I am forever grateful and honored to have been his student. Rest easy sweet angel.»
- Beverly
«Bob Wallace was one of the most giving and kindness Gentlemen one could meet. Our challenges on the sidelines were always cordial & respectful. As a Teammate during our Senior League play you could not ask for a better person. Bob will always be remembered with a smile as he wore one often. Condolences to his Family & Friends. The starting 5 up there now has a point guard and great Teammate. RIP Bob.»
- Terry Miller
«I remember Mr. Wallace. From Trimble although he never taught me he was one of my favourite teachers and Trimble because. Even though I was in. Modified. Ed. he believed in and always treated me as an equal the students that took regular classes.»
- Tobie
«We were very fortunate to have teamed up with Bob a few years ago, where the rules of golf basically were bent…a lot!! “Take that ball out from beneath the tree, take that ball out of the sand.” As you can imagine, our games were very relaxed. There are a lot of good memories playing with Bob. We will remember you on the “Field of Dreams” as this is what we called the fairways. It was a pleasure to have met you. I will dedicate my first round to you golf buddy. You will be missed. Murielle.» 🏌️♀️
- Murielle Bourgeois
«I’m so happy I got to meet Bob with Sandra at our sweet cabin on the Tidnish River. My deepest condolences to Sandra, Jeff & whole family. In deed Bob was one impressive man.»
- Cathy Rogers
«I am so sorry to hear Bob's passing. 💔 He was one of my favorite people at HTHS. In high school, I had Bob as a law teacher and coach for the mock trial tournaments between high schools. I later was one of Bob's student teachers. I taught law and a business course under his guidance and supervision at HTHS. He was one of the people who taught me how to play Trimbles staff card game (45's). I then started teaching at HTHS as a colleague (not for long as he retired shortly after). We did keep in touch at card tournaments over the years (or when i would run into him at Turners). He always had a warm smile and big hug every time we meet. Big hugs to you guys 🫂 He was one of the best. 😢»
- Jennifer Hamilton
«Bob was also a Great Friend of mine, we first met at Maritime Co-op, we both worked on the order desk. Bob on the feed desk and I on the hardware desk. After Bob left Co-op, and up to the present time he always had time to talk. Bob was everyone’s friend. God Bless»
- Jim Steeves
«I have great memories of Bob from when I was young and him and Sandra lived across the street from me on McLaughlin Dr. They even trusted me to babysit Krista when she was born. He was a such a nice, kind man. His obituary does him proud.»
- Heather Geldart
«Sandra, Jeff and Kim; So sorry for your loss. Bob was a friend for over 70 years and we shared many adventures as young boys from the “New West End”. Memories have flashed back over the past few days and Jeff and I will share them with you… All of them… Cherish the memories Bob helped create.»
- Bob Roach
«What an amazing obituary for such an amazing man. He made a huge impact on so many.»
- Colleen Edmonds
«My deepest condolences to Sandra and family from high school and onward one of the nicest person I’ve known. Wonderful obituary and memories. Peggy (Geldart) Hewitson»
- Peggy Hewitson
«Murielle and I loved golfing with Bob, he was always encouraging me and told me I was too hard on myself, lol. He was such a good golfer, but like Jeff joked about, he took a few mulligans, especially out of the sand traps. But he was a really good golfer, and so accurate on the green. His chipping with the 7 iron was amazing! We will sadly miss him on the golf course at Pine Needles, where he was always respected. Jean 😘»
- Jean Casey
«Bob, Harry and Sandra… Lots of memories. Bob was a wonderful guy.»
- Mike Murphy
«My condolences to Sandra and family. My husband Jeff Hyslop has always told me that Mr. Wallace was his favorite teacher❤️»
- Jocelyne Olscamp
«So sorry to hear of his passing! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family! 💔»
- Marilyn Carson Mowat
«Dear Jeff and Family, I was so sorry to hear of Mr. Wallace's passing. He was such a wonderful man! An absolute joy to be around, and he truly lit up every room he was in! I absolutely loved having him as my Law teacher at Trimble. There wasn't one day where I wasn't laughing my head off during class. From the minute I walked into class, he had me laughing! I sat right up front, directly in front of his desk. Every morning when I came in, he'd open up the top drawer on his desk and pull out a red fishing fly and put it on my desk for me. Once again, I would immediately burst out laughing. The reason he would put that red fishing fly on my desk is because he said he'd never seen someone's face turn so red from laughing so hard, it reminded him of his fishing fly lol! He was such a bright light and we need more people like him in this world. Mr. Wallace you are so loved and will be forever missed! Please accept my deepest condolences Jeff and family. Thinking of you all during this sad time and sending lots of love and hugs your way! What the heart has once known, it shall never forget. Take comfort in knowing he has been reunited with Krista again. Our loss is their reunion. Stephanie Garland»
- Stephanie Garland
«In kind of a funny twist of circumstance, both my mother and myself went to HTHS about 10 years apart (my Mom had returned to finish grade 12 as a mature student when I was about 6 years old). We both has Mr. Wallace as a teacher, myself for General Business and homeroom and my mother had previously had him for Law. He and my Mom had heated debates in Law class and she had a great respect for him. Fast forward 10 years when I told him who my Mom was he burst out laughing and said " Oh boy, she has come back to haunt me, lol ". He had wry sense of humour and I really enjoyed his class! He was well like by many but not to be fooled, he would set you straight if you got out of line. My deepest sympathies to the family. He was an HTHS Hall of Fame member if there ever was one.»
- Lisa Springer (West)